@Southsider. Yes, I think it varies from person to person. Your uncle is going to be different to me, & I'm different to others in the gay community. All I'll say is I just would like marriage to be called marriage. I don't want it under any other kind of category. For it to be under a different category kind of makes it seem lesser or not the same - even if it still carries all the same rights. So I don't really think there is much difference between the two but I think for many, including myself, it is the symbolism & principle of not accepting anything different to what "everybody else is already used to".