Of course there are examples on both sides. Jamie also points out instances where Joubert made wrong calls that favoured the Wallabies.
I don't think the article was whingey, it simply pointed out one instance where 99 times out of 100 that call would not have been made and a (potentially...
I think all your points are valid - the biggest problem I have with result is that we never (except maybe in the first 30) looked like we were going to come close to winning the thing.
The ABs controlled the tempo and evenntually the result almost perfectly.
Meant to post this the other day when I came across it.
One of the best rugby articles I've read anywhere.